You were taught
to man up.

i’ll teach you how
to show up.

You don’t need to be fixed.
You just need the tools you never got.

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THE NO BS Guide To Working With Men!

The NO BS Guide To Better Relationships for Men!

Dan Griffin, M.A., is an internationally recognized author, thought leader, and expert on men’s relationships and masculinity with a particular focus on trauma and addiction.

Who I Help:

Men: Stop pretending. Stop performing. Don’t let the Man Rules rule you. Let’s rewrite the Rules together!

Fathers: Breaking cycles. Building connection. Being Amazing Dads!

Professionals: New tools to help you reach men in a new way.

About Dan.

I’ve spent over 25 years helping men, fathers, and professionals untangle their pain, show up more fully in their lives, and build relationships that actually work. I’m not here to fix anyone — I’m here to help people do the kind of inner work most of us were never taught to do.

I’m a man with over 30 years of recovery from addiction and all kinds of additional personal work to help me, a husband of 21 years with lots of highs and lows, and a father — which means I’ve wrestled with all the things I talk about: shame, disconnection, masculinity, intimacy, and identity. Through my books, my trainings, and my work in the field, I’ve helped thousands of men and thousands of those who support them help men stop performing, start healing, and live with more courage, clarity, and connection. I am honored to serve on the board of White Bison, an amazing organization supporting tribes, first nation’s and indigenous people around the world with wellbriety. I also serve on the board of NSA-SoCal, a local chapter of the National Speakers Association, a wonderful organization that supports speakers of all kinds in every aspect of our businesses.

The work I do is rooted in one simple belief: when we help men open their hearts and heal their pain, everything can change.

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“This book is a wonderful, culturally proficient guide for many men who are trying to find a place in this world to be true to themselves in recovery.”

– Amazon.com review for A Man’s Way Through The Twelve Steps

“This excellent book fearlessly goes right to the core of men’s issues. An inspiring and insightful read, one which I will continue to recommend to men seeking to have better and more conscious love relationships.”

– Amazon.com review for A Man’s Way Through Relationships

“As a therapist I can’t express how insightful and educational this curriculum is. When presenting this material to my group of male clients I observed they were able to embrace the material and provide emotional insight like I’ve never seen before. Throughout my 25 years of clinical experience, and as a wife I appreciated the opportunity to gain a new perspective into a fathers multitude of responsibilities and challenges. I can’t recommend this enough! Phenomenal curriculum, I highly recommend!”

– Amazon.com review for Amazing Dads! Fatherhood Curriculum

“In my experience with Chemical Dependency counseling this workbook has been a blessing. Too often it is assumed that abstinence from drugs is the goal, when in fact it is just the beginning. When paired with “A Man’s Way through the 12 Steps” the challenge of living life on life’s terms is presented as the ultimate goal for long term recovery. The men I have worked with and continue to work with would attest to that.”

– Amazon.com review for Helping Men Recover

“Dan has written a very substantial and helpful guide for men in 12-step recovery. Filled with wisdom and great insights from a variety of recovering men, this astute work does not shy away from any of the difficult issues men face in day to day sober living. Thank you Dan for this important work which I will continue to share with other men in 12 step programs.”

– Amazon.com review A Man’s Way Through the Twelve Steps

“An invaluable resource for therapists conducting individual or group therapy sessions with men who have an SA history. Straightforward, keeps it real, and easily accessible for a wide span of various client cognitive levels.”

– Amazon.com review for Helping Men Recover

“Great book. Griffin really does a great job of giving men a different way to think and approach relationships and feelings. Highly worthwhile for any man wanting to make better decisions in relationships and life.”

– Amazon.com review for A Man’s Way Through Relationships

“I work in a prison and use these for those clients who are on the fence about change and recovery. Good tool for any provider in the addictions field.”

– Amazon.com review for Helping Men Recover: Criminal Justice Edition

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