Man Rule #1384387438: A real man should never have to ask anyone if they want to have sex. His potential partners should, by definition, be overwhelmed by his raw, animal magnetism and immediately consumed by desire upon first contact. The question of “Do they want it?” should only be a rhetorical one. OF COURSE THEY WANT IT. Duh.
Man Rule #11384387439: A real man is born an expert in sex stuff. He never has to ask a partner what they want or how they want it because he already knows. If he does make the mistake of asking, and his partner acts uncomfortable, refuses to answer, or even gets annoyed with him for asking, it’s because he has failed as a man and as an expert in sex stuff. It’s his responsibility to show other people what they want.
No wonder sex and intimacy is so often fraught with fear and confusion, right? Thank God for Mike Domitrz and his amazing work with The Date Safe Project. Mike spends his days speaking to young men and women across the country about sexuality and consent?topics that are sadly left out of many the conversations we have with our spouses, partners, and children about sex and sexuality.
Listen to this episode of the podcast for yourself and for your loved ones?especially your children. And pass it on.