bromance Archives - Dan Griffin https://dangriffin.com/tag/bromance/ A Man's Way - Helping Men Be Better Men Wed, 23 Jan 2019 21:11:15 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 I Love You…Man https://dangriffin.com/i-love-you-man/ Tue, 31 Jul 2018 03:45:05 +0000 https://dangriffin.com/?p=7847 It’s rarely easy for any of us to say “I love you” for the first time. But, this can be especially true when one straight guy loves another straight guy. Of course, those times are changing. Especially thanks to your...

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Why you should tell your guy friends you love them -- Bob Nickman on The Man Rules Podcast

It’s rarely easy for any of us to say “I love you” for the first time. But, this can be especially true when one straight guy loves another straight guy. Of course, those times are changing. Especially thanks to your friends at Budweiser all of those years ago. 

The Water doesn’t leave much room for expressing all the different types of love that men experience. It’s okay to express familial love, and it’s okay to express love for a person you are interested in having sex with or currently having sex with, but expressing love for someone who is not blood-related and/or a potential sex partner? That’s just WEIRD, man. Or strictly verboten.

This week our guest Bob Nickman joins Dan for a Deep Dive on why, even in a culture that frowns on it, it’s worth taking the risk of telling your closest male friends that you love them. It’s one way to tear the social barriers that prevent men from developing close, nurturing friendships with other men. Bob and Dan talk about their own fears in expressing those feelings, and what the result has been of taking the risk.

Practical & Tactical

  1. The next time you feel like you have a friend that you love — say it.
  2. Put a “comma man” after it the first time. Make it a little less vulnerable.
  3. You don’t need to hear it back for it to matter.
  4. In the next month, find one man to whom you can say it. And do it!

About Our Guest

Bob Nickman is an American comedian, actor, television producer, and television writer. As a television producer/writer, his credits include Mad About YouFreaks and GeeksDannyAccording to JimBig DayRita Rocks and Roseanne. As an actor, he appeared in four episodes of Roseanne from 1994 to 1995, as well as guest starring in an episode of Designing Women in 1990, his acting debut. He also appeared in the films Shakes the Clown (1991) and Crossing the Bridge (1992). He is a native of Cleveland, Ohio and performed stand-up comedy for much of the 1980s. He is currently the host of The Exploding Human Podcast where he interviews people in the fields of health and healing in body, mind and spirit. 

Mentioned in This Episode

The 7 Types of Love

“Guy Love” from Scrubs

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