Dr. Walter Kempler Archives - Dan Griffin https://dangriffin.com/tag/dr-walter-kempler/ A Man's Way - Helping Men Be Better Men Wed, 23 Jan 2019 21:11:47 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 What Men Would Tell You… About Women https://dangriffin.com/men-are-from-france-women-are-from-spain/ Mon, 23 Jul 2018 23:34:26 +0000 https://dangriffin.com/?p=7841 It’s been said that men are women are from totally different planets. All of the struggles they have in relating to one another are a result of the fact that they are just two totally different species, and the only...

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What Men Would Tell You If They Weren't Too Busy Watching TV - Dan Griffin and Dr. Allen Berger on The Man Rules podcast

It’s been said that men are women are from totally different planets. All of the struggles they have in relating to one another are a result of the fact that they are just two totally different species, and the only way to bridge the gap is to study the culture, habits, and communication styles of the other and try to adapt the best you can.

There’s only one, small, potential problem with that approach. It may put some of us in a mindset that, when communicating with our partners, we should seek primarily to be understood rather than to understand. Or perhaps we resign ourselves to the idea that we will never truly understand or know our partner. It sets you up to think that your relationship is about developing the best offense or defense based on what you know about your opponent’s playing style. It’s more about protecting and less about connecting.  

Dan says that it’s more like men are from France, and women are from Spain. They do both speak different languages, but the words in each language come from the same root. (i.e. Latin.)    

That’s why Dan is working on a new book, What Men Would Tell You If They Weren’t Too Busy Watching TV with his good friend Dr. Allen Berger. Allen is back on the podcast this week to help explain the aim behind the book, and to give a few pointers on beginning a process of healthy struggle with your partner. Dan and Allen share tips on how to stay connected during the day-to-day ups and downs of your relationship, and how to allow your difference to make you stronger as individuals, and as a couple. You’ll also hear a preview of the 10 Man Rules Dan and Allen will cover in upcoming episodes – as well as in their forthcoming book.

We’d love to hear what you think about this episode, AND/OR to hear about your experiences with the Man Rule we’ll be covering next month. Please email [email protected] with your questions and comments. Or reach out on Facebook or Twitter.

Practical and Tactical

Tune in to The Man Rules podcast the third week of every month, to hear Dan and Allen break down the following Man Rules:

  1. The Don’t Cry Rule
  2. The Always Be in Control Rule
  3. The Don’t Be Vulnerable or Weak Rule
  4. The Success Rule
  5. The Protector Rule
  6. The Fight Rule
  7. The Be Cool Rule
  8. The Sex Rule
  9. The Winning Rule
  10. The Know It All Rule

Mentioned in This Episode

Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus – John Gray

Dr. Walter Kempler

I and Thou, Martin Buber

Alexythymia

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