Thankfully, discussions about gender conformity and its influence on mental health, crime, and violence have hit the mainstream. A big part of that discussion focuses on the idea of “toxic masculinity.” Is masculinity itself at the center of all of mens’ problems? And are men at the center of all the world’s problems? It can certainly feel that way if you spend a lot of time on Twitter…
Randy Flood, author of the best article on toxic masculinity we’ve ever read (as well as several other books and articles about men’s issues) is on the podcast this week to set the record straight on what toxic masculinity is, and what it isn’t. He helps us understand that traits that are considered “masculine” aren’t toxic, but that the rigid adherence to those traits in all situations, even when they are damaging to self or others, is.